Have you ever seen a woman you are strongly attracted but couldn’t summon the courage to approach her because you’re shy? You’re probably envious of your friends that seem to have their ways easily with women no matter how sexy or classy that woman might be.
Well, the most important thing you need to know when it comes to dating or even seducing a woman is that you must be very confident.
There’s nothing that is more attractive to a woman than a man that has the perfect balance of confidence, and not someone that’s wimpy, defeated, boastful and arrogant.
As a matter of fact, real women habitually associate a man’s self-confidence with his ability to be successful.
And every woman likes and fall for successful men, not necessarily materialistic or flamboyant.
Most men that are struggling to date women successfully erroneously believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money. That’s an isolated cases and not usually the norm!
However, real women essentially look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied.
One main reason they do this is that they know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable and reliable.
This is what most women envisage would give them assurance and peace of mind in their relationships because what being successful and satisfied means is that such a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations.
What you must be aware of is that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner and lover all rolled into one.
Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.
When it comes to confidence, most people quickly conclude that it is either you have it or you don’t and that there’s nothing anyone can do about that.
Whilst this might appear true on the surface, everyone has the potential to be self-confident to do whatever you want to do that requires you being confident.
We’re all created to learn, acquire and become whoever we want to be or whatever we want to attain or achieve in this life if we are ready to put our hearts into it and stick with it long enough to achieve such amidst frustrations or setbacks. Thus, getting self-confidence is definitely not an exception.
Interestingly, women generally tend to go for men that are evidently a good person, smart, funny, good at his job, loving, considerate and everything else you can regard as positive character or traits.
It is NOT all women that are looking for business moguls, doctors and men that’re generally swell in their bank accounts but have nothing else to offer.
All they, real women, ever wanted is a man who’s confident with the person he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to them in their relationship with him.
How Do You Build Your Self-confidence?
If you sincerely want to build your confidence with women, then you must find men, friends and colleagues that are confident and are good with women and watch how these men start conversations and how bold they are and do things on their terms.
One advantage of observing these confident men is that it will help you build up your courage to try it yourself, and the more you build your confidence, the more confident you become.
Of course, we’re not referring to men that are arrogant, detestable and full of themselves, but those that are confident enough not to constantly ask for permission subconsciously.
What You Gain By Being Confident
Foremost, being confident will help you in every area of your life, most notably in the areas of decision-making and taking action. Most men are not self-confident, so when a man has the right mix of confidence and humility, a woman finds it exceptionally attractive.
Also being confident allows you to identify your insecurities, not just with women but in every aspects of your life, which avoids a crippling complex.
Most of the time, men that suffers from insecurity spend most of their time trying to hide their hang-ups, whereas confident men can easily point them out and let go.
Thus, being confident let you drop your hang-ups and empowers you to stand out from other men. Always remember the fact that the more a man is trying to cover up his insecurity, the more insecure he appears to women and the less they would want to associate with him!
Although, it’s true that everyone has insecurities, and no one is perfect but you can always strive to be above the mediocrity level.
When you are confident, it will raise your believe that you sincerely deserve success and also that a woman would be lucky to be with you!
You might be wondering…
How Do You Create This Belief In Yourself?
The first thing you need to do is to write down 10 reasons why you think a woman would be lucky to date you. Doing this would remind you of why you deserve to be successful and why a woman should be with you.
When you have believed this and pass it down to your subconscious mind then you will be able to radiate confidence that is very attractive to women. You will stand out well about the other men and will no longer feel shy being around women you secretly want to date. Women would be attracted to you like bees to honey!
What Can Rubbish Your Self-confidence Before Any Woman?
It doesn’t matter how confident you might be or appear to be, there are some behavior that women are not expected of you.
Women hate men that are clingy and they don’t appreciate either men that always want to know what the woman is doing, or who continuously feel that they are left out when she wants to do something alone or with her girlfriends.
Men that are truly confident and secure don’t get jealous every time his woman gets excited about doing something fun without him.